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PW: How do you teach someone to laugh more?
AG: Really, it's just a matter of tapping into what they already know. As infants and children, we laugh all the time. We don't need to tell racist jokes to access our laughter. Essentially, I give people the tools to play with their pain and help them regain the ability to hold the world in a light fashion. I have many techniques which are too complex for this short article. I offer a week long workshop to help nurses and therapists learn and practice these techniques. I also have a new book to help people learn to laugh about difficult moments in their lives. Goodheart, Annette. (1994). |
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PW: Can you say more about spiritual pain?
AG: To roll it all up into one word, it has to do with disconnection. Even though we say we're all connected in our society, we don't experience it very often. We walk around feeling alienated and isolated. All cathartic activity stimulates a chemical rebalancing, which creates the experience of connection within ourselves. When we laugh together or cry together we feel reconnected with ourselves and with each other. If you can pinpoint your pain, that's where the healing takes place. It rebalances the chemistry that prevents us from thinking clearly. Our emotions are not meant to produce thinking, they're meant to produce action. With each emotion, chemicals are released to stimulate us into specific actions. If we don't take that action, we then have a hangover. That's what the cathartic activity resolves. PW: Do you have any stories which demonstrate your philosophy? AG: I was working with an AIDS patient who'd just been diagnosed with meningitis. Naturally, he was terrified. He came for his regular appointment on Thursday and we spent one hour laughing, screaming, and crying. I realized that he still had more to release, so I sent him out to the beach to continue. He went to the hospital on Monday and his meningitis was gone, and the physicians had no explanation for it. We don't know yet how much influence our emotions and beliefs have on our bodies, especially on our immune system. If you think about it, the immune system is the way our body relates to the outside world. It is the key to how we interface with our environment. It interprets what belongs and what doesn't, what hurts us and what doesn't. PW: Do you mean that perhaps these cathartic activities help remove or protect us from emotions that could have a harmful effect upon us? AG: Yes, and people in dire circumstances can come up with the most magical and wonderful statements to help themselves laugh and to heal the way they've been relating to their situation. That's what laughter does. It shifts the way we relate to what's happening to us, things that we don't always have control over. That's the healing part of laughter. It alters how we relate to something. Our attitude, viewpoint, and belief system are the keys to how we interface emotionally with something outside us, and laughter and other cathartic processes change that relationship.
This article was originally published in "Jest for the Health of It", a regular feature in the Journal of Nursing Jocularity. Feature columnist Patty Wooten, BSN, is also a past President of the American Association for Therapeutic Humor, author of two books related to humor, and a national speaker presenting on the benefits of humor. |
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